Yahya related to me from Malik that he heard Ibn Shihab say, "The
woman who is absolutely divorced does not leave her house until she is
free to remarry. She has no maintenance unless she is pregnant. In
that circumstance the husband spends on her until she gives birth."
Malik said, "This is what is done among us."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said and from Yazid
ibn Abdullah ibn Qusayt al-Laythi that Said ibn al-Musayyab said,
''Umar ibn al-Khattab said, 'If a woman is divorced and has one or two
periods and then stops menstruating, she must wait nine months. If it
is clear that she is pregnant, that is that. If not, she must do an
idda of three months after the nine, and then she is free to marry.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Said ibn al-
Musayyab said, "The idda of the woman who bleeds constantly is a
year."
Malik said, "What is done among us about a divorced
woman whose periods stop when her husband divorces her is that she
waits nine months. If she has not had a period in them, she has an
idda of three months. If she has a period before the end of the three
months, she accepts the period. If another nine months pass without
her having a period, she does an idda of three months. If she has a
second period before the end of those three months, she accepts the
period. If nine months then pass without a period, she does an idda of
three months. If she has a third period, the idda of the period is
complete. If she does not have a period, she waits three months, and
then she is free to marry. Her husband can return to her before she
becomes free to marry unless he made her divorce irrevocable."
Malik said, "The sunna with us is that when a man divorces his
wife and has the option to return to her, and she does part of her
idda and then he returns to her and then parts from her before he has
had intercourse with her, she does not add to what has passed of her
idda. Her husband has wronged himself and erred if he returned to her
and had no need of her."
Malik said, "What is done among us
is that if a woman becomes a muslim while her husband is a kafir and
then he becomes muslim, he is entitled to her as long as she is in her
idda. If her idda is finished, he has no access to her. If he
remarries her after the end of her idda, however, that is not counted
as divorce. Islam removed her from him without divorce."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Ali ibn Abi
Talib said about the two arbiters about whom Allah, the Exalted,
said,"If you fear a breach between the two, appoint an arbiter from
his people, and an arbiter from her people. If they desire to set
things aright, Allah will make peace between them, surely Allah is
Knowing, Aware," (Sura 4 ayat 35), that the separation and the joining
were overseen by the two of them.
Malik said, "That is the
best of what I have heard from the people of knowledge. Whatever the
two arbiters say concerning separation or joining is taken into
consideration "
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Umar ibn
al-Khattab, Abdullah ibn Umar, Abdullah ibn Masud, Salim ibn Abdullah,
al-Qasim ibn Muhammad, Ibn Shihab,and Sulayman ibn Yasar all said, "If
a man has vowed to divorce his wife before marrying her and then he
breaks his vow, divorce is obligatory for him when he marries her."
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 29, Hadith 73
Hadith 512340
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Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that
Abdullah ibn Masud said that there was nothing binding on someone who
said, "Every woman I marry is divorced," if he did not name a specific
tribe or woman.
Malik said, "That is the best of what I have
heard."
Malik said about a man saying to his wife, "You are
divorced, and every woman I marry is divorced," or that all his
property would be sadaqa if he did not do such-and-such, and he broke
his oath:
"As for his wives, it is divorce as he said, and as for his
statement, 'Every woman I marry is divorced', if he did not name a
specific woman, tribe, or land, or such, it is not binding on him and
he can marry as he wishes. As for his property, he gives a third of it
away as sadaqa."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Said ibn al-
Musayyab said, "If someone marries a woman and cannot have intercourse
with her, there is a deadline of a year set for him to have
intercourse with her. If he does not, they are separated."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had asked Ibn Shihab about
whether the deadline was set from the day he had married her, or from
the day she raised the question before the Sultan. He said. 'It is
from the day she presents it before the Sultan.'
Malik said,
"As for someone who has intercourse with his wife and then is
prevented from intercourse with her, I have not heard that there is a
deadline set for him or that they are separated."
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 29, Hadith 754
Hadith 512370
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وَحَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ بَلَغَنِي أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ لِرَجُلٍ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ أَسْلَمَ وَعِنْدَهُ عَشْرُ نِسْوَةٍ حِينَ أَسْلَمَ الثَّقَفِيُّ
" أَمْسِكْ مِنْهُنَّ أَرْبَعًا وَفَارِقْ سَائِرَهُنَّ " .
Yahya related to me from Malik that Ibn Shihab said, "I have
heard that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said to a man from Thaqif who had ten wives when he became
muslim, 'Take four and separate from the rest.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik that Ibn Shihab said that he had
heard Said ibn al-Musayyab, Humayd ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf,
Ubaydullah ibn Abdullah ibn Utba ibn Masud, and Sulayman ibn Yasarall
say, that they had heard Abu Hurayra say that he had heard Umar ibn
al-Khattab say, "If a woman is divorced by her husband once or twice,
and he leaves her until she is free to marry and she marries another
husband and he dies or divorces her, and then she marries her first
husband, she is with him according to what remains of her divorce."
Malik said, "That is what is done among us and there is no
dispute about it."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Thabit ibn al-Ahnaf that he
married an umm walad of Abd ar-Rahman ibn Zayd ibn al-Khattab. He
said, "Abdullah ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Zayd ibn al-Khattab summoned me
and I went to him. I came in upon him and there were whips and two
iron fetters placed there, and two of his slaves whom he had made to
sit there. He said, 'Divorce her, or by He by whom one swears, I will
do such-and-such to you!' I said, 'It is divorce a thousand times.'
Then I left him and I saw Abdullah ibn Umar on the road to Makka and I
told him about my situation. Abdullah ibn Umar was furious, and said,
'That is not divorce, and she is not haram for you, so return to your
home.' I was still not at ease so I went to Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr who
was the Amir of Makka at that time. I told him about my situation and
what Abdullah ibn Umar had said to me. Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr said to
me, 'She is not haram for you, so return to your home,' and he wrote
to Jabir ibn al-Aswad az-Zuhra who was the Amir of Madina and ordered
him to punish Abdullah ibn Abdar-Rahman and to have him leave me and
my family alone. I went to Madina, and Safiyya, the wife of Abdullah
ibn Umar fitted out my wife so that she could bring her to my house
with the knowledge of Abdullah ibn Umar. Then I invited Abdullah ibn
Umar on the day of my wedding to the wedding feast and he came."
Yahya related to me from Malik that Abdullah ibn Dinar said, "I
heard Abdullah ibn Umar recite from the Qur'an, 'Prophet! When you
divorce women, divorce them at the beginning of their idda.'"
Malik said, "He meant by that, to make one pronouncement of divorce at
the beginning of each period of purity."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that his
father said, "It used to be that a man would divorce his wife and then
return to her before her idda was over, and that was alright, even if
he divorced her a thousand times. The man went to his wife and then
divorced her and when the end of her idda was in sight, he took her
back and then divorced her and said, 'No! By Allah, I will not go to
you and you will never be able to marry again.' Allah, the Blessed,
the Exalted, sent down, 'Divorce is twice, then honourable retention
or setting free kindly.' People then turned towards divorce in a new
light from that day whether or not they were divorced or not
divorced."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Thawr ibn Zayd ad-Dili that
Allah, the Blessed, the Exalted, sent down about a man who divorced
his wife and then returned to her while he had no need of her and did
not mean to keep her so as to make the idda period long for her by
that in order to do her harm, "Do not retain them by force, to
transgress. Whoever does that has wronged himself." (Sura 2 ayat 231).
Allah warns them by that ayat.
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Said ibn
al-Musayyab and Sulayman ibn Yasar were asked about a man who divorced
when he was drunk. They said, "When a drunk man divorces, his divorce
is allowed. If he kills, he is killed for it."
Malik said,
"That is what is done among us."
Yahya related to me from
Malik that he had heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "If a man does
not find the means to spend on his wife, they are to be separated . "
Malik said, "That is what I saw the people of knowledge in
our city doing."
29.30 Idda of Widows when Pregnant
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdu Rabbih ibn Said ibn Qays
that Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman said that Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu
Hurayra were asked when a pregnant woman whose husband had died could
remarry. Ibn Abbas said, "At the end of two periods." Abu Hurayra
said, "When she gives birth, she is free to marry." Abu Salama ibn Abd
ar-Rahman visited Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, and asked her about it Umm Salama said,
''Subaya al-Aslamiya gave birth half a month after the death of her
husband, and two men asked to marry her. One was young and the other
was old. She preferred the young man and so the older man said, 'You
are not free to marry yet.' Her family were away and he hoped that
when her family came, they would give her to him. She went to the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he
said, 'You are free to marry, so marry whomever you wish.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar
was asked about a woman whose husband died while she was pregnant, and
he said, "When she gives birth, she is free to marry." A man of the
Ansar who was with him told him that Umar ibn al-Khattab had said,
"Had she given birth while her husband was still on his bed, unburied,
she would be free to marry."
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 29, Hadith 84
Hadith 512470
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وَحَدَّثَنِي عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ، أَنَّهُ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ سُبَيْعَةَ الأَسْلَمِيَّةَ نُفِسَتْ بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا بِلَيَالٍ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم
" قَدْ حَلَلْتِ فَانْكِحِي مَنْ شِئْتِ " .
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn 'Urwa from his
father that al-Miswar ibn Makhrama told him that Subaya al-Aslamiya
gave birth a few nights after the death of her husband. The Messenger
of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to her, "You
are free to marry, so marry whomever you wish."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Sulayman
ibn Yasar that Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn
Awf differed on the question of a wornan who gave birth a few nights
after the death of her husband. Abu Salama said, "When she gives birth
to the child she is carrying, she is free to marry." Ibn Abbas said,
"At the end of two periods." Abu Hurayra came and said, "I am with my
nephew", meaning Abu Salama. They sent Kurayb, a mawla of Abdullah ibn
Abbas to Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, to ask her about it. He came back and told them that
she had said that Subaya al-Aslamiya had given birth a few nights
after the death of her husband, and she had brought the matter to the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he
had said, "You are free to marry, so marry whomever you wish."
Malik said, "This is how the people of knowledge here continue to
act."
29.31 Widows Remaining in Their Houses until Free to
Marry
Yahya related to me from Malik from Said ibn Ishaq ibn Kab ibn
Ujra from his paternal aunt, Zaynab bint Kab ibn Ujra that al-Furaya
bint Malik ibn Sinan, the sister of Abu Said al-Khudri, informed her
that she went to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, and asked to be able to return to her people among the Banu
Khudra since her husband had gone out in search of some of his slaves
who had run away and he had caught up with them near al-Qudum, (which
is 6 miles from Madina), and they had killed him.
She said,
"I asked the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, if I could return to my people in the Banu Khudra, as my
husband had not left me in a dwelling which belonged to him, and had
left me no maintenance. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him
and grant him peace, said,'Yes.' So I left. When I was in the
courtyard, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, called me or summoned me, and I answered him. He said, 'What
did you say?' I repeated the story about my husband. He said, 'Stay in
your house until what is written reaches its term.' I did the idda in
the house for four months and ten days."
She added, "When
Uthman ibn Affan sent for me, I told him that, and he followed it and
made decisions by it."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Humayd ibn Qays al-Makki from
Amr ibn Shuayb from Said ibn al-Musayyab that Umar ibn al-Khattab sent
back widows from the desert and prevented them from doing the hajj.
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Saqd that he
had heard that as-Sa'ib ibn Khabbab died, and his wife went to
Abdullah ibn Umar and mentioned to him that her husband had died and
mentioned some land which they had at Qanah, (a district on the
outskirts of Madina), and asked him if it would be alright for her to
stay overnight there. He forbade her to do so. So, she went out before
dawn from Madina and spent the whole day on their land, but when
evening came, she spent the night in her house.
Yahya related to me from Malik that Hisham ibn Urwa said about a
Bedouin woman whose husband died, that she was to stay where her
people stayed.
Malik said, "This is what is done among us."